I am older than you, this is wisdom speaking. As good men we must present ourselves and our orgasms to the universe as both sexual and spiritual. At the same time we must remain conscious that our spirituality expands and will one day make contact with the entire universe. While our sexual self is limited, our spiritual capacity is utterly vast. Sexually we reach only a few people, while our feelings and especially our thoughts(spirituality) are capable of reaching all. Connecting our spiritual and sexual thoughst is far more powerful and embraces infinitely more, it is also more subtle and has greater possibilities, allowing us to do dream any dream that we want. One day, however, after numerous incarnations and immense spiritual work, our spiritual will activate our sexual instantaneously. Remember, You are what you repeatedly do. Excellence is not an event — it is a habit. In the minutes before your ejaculate your breathing should become more vigorous, building and building into a kind of tantric frenzy. Lots of sexy thoughts, tell yourself what you really like to hear. Think of something you want to happen in your life. As you are getting closer to your multi orgasmic ejaculation take huge big deep breaths through your nose, holding them in and then blowing them out through your mouth. Then as you begin to multi orgasmic ejaculate clench every muscle in your body and rolls your back in your head. Hold your breath for as long as you can, till you think your about to explode. Then as you need, take a big deep breathe and at the same time shout very loudly what it was you wanted to happen in your life. Then it’s time to completely relax, resume regular breathing, and cover your body with a cumm sheet or blanket. You should maintain finger contact with your cock as you rest and dream. Music is very important at this stage. This experience can often take men to a slightly different level, with many experiencing very vivid sexual dreams the night after their full body multi orgasmic ejaculation. Our ejaculations are devine, that is as close as you will get to heaven on this earth. We have to learn to celebrate what is the very essence of us, connecting our mutli orgasmic ejaculations to our spirituality. We need to be taught this skill; we need guides to show us how. If we don’t our spirituality gets made up for us bi/ other people, and our ejaculations are far too fucking sacred for us to allow that do happen. I am older than you, this is wisdom speaking. (Bi/ Seb Cox
Trust, Truth and Respect Hello Seb, I was brought up a catholic and i think that is where i get a lot of my “spiritual” beliefs from. Unlike many i love the “catholic” spirit but as i got older an more significantly as i became more aware of my sexuality my beliefs changed……to cut a long story short……i do like to consider my “spiritual” but not in the theoretical sense. For me spirituality is about connecting the following (which aren’t in any order of priority) 1. I believe in the power of masculinity. I have lived with women but am gay. For me men only need men to survive (except for having children..lol) I believe that men are superior in terms of their mental, physical, spiritual, emotional and sexual power. For me it is these characteristics that define masculinity. 2. Men gain energy and power when they are with other men. I don’t know if you have noticed but even in a straight pub/bar the atmosphere is very different when it is men only. By themselves even straight men will play act with each other. HOWEVER, when a female enters the room (and it only takes one) the atmosphere is very different. 3. Where there is TRUST between men there is development. I am a strong believe and very respectful of trust, truth and respect. These three characteristics are the hardest to build yet are the easiest to destroy. Where they exist they enable men to experience fulfilment as it enable men to open their minds and to shine a light on the darkest corners of their mind. I suppose in some ways it makes the impossible possible and enables the perversions to be seen as normal and healthy. 4. Brotherhood. I believe we can all learn from and support each other. I don’t have any brothers so don’t know what it is like to have a natural brother. However, i appreciate the bonds of support and development that exists between men. I can only fantasise about what that energy is between supportive brothers. I do believe that laws should always be abided by and also believe that where men are consenting and give themselves freely is the best state. I know my beliefs are not mainstream and don’t really fit into any ‘institutionalised’ religion. I have searched and tried a few different religions most of which are Christian. I have recently spoken to a Satanist who did excite and inspire me but i think he was after a wank. I’m not sure if you understand my feelings but I do want to thank you for the opportunity to express them. All the best Mark
Mark, powerful stuff. A wank with a Satanist, now that sounds like fun. Would it be ok to publish this on one of my websites. I was also brought up as a catholic, and althouth i was never really connected to the instution of it, I think it embedded in me about being a good man, just like Jesus. For me my masculinity is my spirituality. I hope at some stage you might get down to London for one of our meetups. It would be great to get something going in Manchester as well. Dont know if you know the poet Rumi (a 13th-century Persian Muslim poet, jurist, theologian, and Sufi mystic), this is one of his poems.
The core of masculinity does not derive from being male, nor from the friendliness of those who console Your old grandmother says, “Maybe you shouldn’t go to school. You look a little pale.” Run when you hear that A father’s stern slaps are better Your bodily soul wants comforting The severe father wants spiritual clarity He scolds, but eventually leads you into the open Pray for a tough instructor to hear and act and stay within you -Rumi Keep in touch, a big hug, seb cox
HI Seb, I have not heard of Rumi before but what he writes is very enlightening and further supports my beliefs that where men submit to men they are able to grow and develop in physical and spiritual strength (masculinity). I don’t mean submit as in the traditional S&M sense as for me submission of a master is equally as significant as submission from a slave. One is worthless without the other. You have really ignited the masculinity and spirituality flame in me. I have been to a tantric massage lesson in the past which was fun but for me that is only one aspect. I suppose what i mean is that as men trust each other more, what becomes more significant is that hey open their mind as well as their body – so it has to happen over time. For me, it is the mind and shining a light in the darkness of the mind that allows the physcial and spiritual to become one. Im not sure that makes sense – hopefully it does. Mark
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